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Please take a moment to consider if this thread is worth bumping. While this is needed for newcomers I feel that you the community must have a wealth of ideas for discussion topics that are underrepresented. I would love to hear your suggests. Serious, funny or otherwise, remember any suggestion is better than none. What is more, you may just get to have the thing you wish to be discussed covered and I get to not wrack my brains quite so much. Over to you all Appropriateness of venue: Where would you not wear your fetish wear or be pulled on a leash in Secondlife.

Who wants to be serious all the time. We do not encourage and will actively move against anyone who is running discussions that claim to be the 'one true way'. Our mission is support, education and inclusion. I've heard 2 lesbians on a self appointed committee of 9 people, complain that there were 2 straight people on the committee because "bdsm is only for lgbt's", this committee met in a lgbt pub in north london where i used to drink, they organised the 'countdown on spanner' protest in trafalgar square after a series of anti bdsm police raids code named 'operation spanner'. In SL, my first encounter with these damn self important meeters, was when i logged into what was becoming my regular hangout to find all the regulars had run for cover because it was the monthly munch.

I followed suit, but not fastenough to miss the topic "Why do Switches make alts". An hour later i returned and they were still at it, the chairsnob asked if there was anyone who wanted to make a final comment on the unresolved question, and the staff domme who'd ignored them all the way through said yes. She then pointed out that in rl you can go to torture Garden naked in collar and cuffs one month with short blonde hair, and in a leather catsuit and a black maitress wig holding a crop the next, and nobody will know you play both roles, but in sl, theres always that name tag with the id The last sl discussion group i was at, the faux dom running it announced that in his opinion based on his 'extensive experience of bdsm, both rl and sl, that as soon as a sub agrees to play in his dungeon, they give up all rights whatso wever and he can do whatever he likes to them, with no limits or safewords.

I said thatg in MY extensive experience, subs drive the scene, and his moronic attitude would in RL quickly lead to charges of bdsm topics illegal imprisonment, common assault, sexual assault, actual bodily harm, and rape. Love them! Excellent point though. I like the rlv trap negating consent aspect and if TPE is feasible inworld.

I think that will spark some discussion. I think that the switch topic may make a good sub topic no pun intended and give the switches in the group a chance to take centre stage and I know it is not the best understood area. I know that there was a discussion on submissives and the way it is assumed or instructed they show respect to any Dominant.

In fact it was my sub, bless her, that led the charge on how that was a ludicrous assumption. Having read that it all re rather too true. I am sorry you met such bdsm topics deluded and dangerous bunch of people on your travels. I can certainly see why you feel bdsm topics way you do and what is more with those examples I feel the same way. Except for one thing. When these discussions occur they are not me standing up front telling ever one how it is because I hate that. Where I am I am only a facilitator, I just supply a topic and talking points and then sit back and call on people in order to speak.

It means everyone gets a say without being interrupted. Although that relationship doesn't exist anymore it did hold almost 5 years though, then RL made us part waysmaybe that blog post could help as food for thoughts somehow. And because you mentioned roleplay above, maybe this one might be food for thoughts too: Roleplay! I know, both blog posts are pretty much tl'dr - but, as as I finished that post myself: "what do you expect of a writer? My assistant will pass them out, now just slip the blindfold over your face, and we'll add the handcuffs We are not really that sort of venue.

That and I think most of us would bust out laughing. I have given them a glance and I will definitely go over those links in more detail. Off topic I am about to restart para fantasy RP so the RP blog will be a good refresher for that as well, I cannot find the Fae emoticon. It does not have to be a sex scene, you know.

Everyone knows how to have sex. Not everyone knows how to worship or accept being worship. You're right about that. I had a hard time resisting satirization of the odd form of worship Bdsm topics received as High Priestess here some years ago. Surely there's a better kind I could receive, deserving of a better kind of satire? I probably haven't nearly the experience you do, but what experience I've had with the BDSM community is completely different than you describe.

I found them to be intelligent, curious and amusing. I even spent an afternoon with a para-RP Gor group who near exhausted me with their style of emoting, but were enjoyable nonetheless, particularly in OOC IMs. Yes, I've encountered a few duds, but they're so terribly easy to avoid I wonder why your view of the world is so different from mine. Thank you. If for no other reason than I could do with learning to accept it better, not that I think I will be worshipped anytime soon. It is an area I believe is coupled with assumptions by non-participants and it would be interesting to get an inside view.

I am glad it is not just me that gets all giggly and smirky. Which is not the best look on a Dom or a Lord High Bunnykins. Oh, the things we have do for our submissives I don't accept compliments well. I've been working on that for a lifetime, but I've hopefully got a long long long way to go.

Appreciation of a compliment is a gift. That's hard for me to remember. It's easier for me to remember Groucho, who said paraphrasing "I would never a club that would accept me as a member. It's easy! Already have an ? in here. What topics should be discussed nore in BDSM discussions. You are about to reply to a thread that has been inactive for days. Recommended Posts. Asreal Ahn 5 Posted June 19, Posted June 19, So we have all been to BDSM bdsm topics were the same topics are rehashed over and over.

So let's hear bdsm topics for participant-driven discussions. Link to post Share on other sites. Conall DeCuir 3, Posted June 20, Posted June 20, Something like Why do you think being horny is being submissive? Why shouldn't I pull my submissive after me on a leash when i visit a ballroom place? What do you mean with being dressed.

Isn't emoting just roleplaying and nothing real? Klytyna 3, Posted June 20, Asreal Ahn 5 Posted June 20, Connal Decuir We can definitely use, 1. Why is being submissive perceived bdsm topics being horny, 2. Klytyna I can totally respect your opinion about all discussion groups, no matter how broad. I have though been to too many discussions that seem to be some what as you describe.

So what would you like them to look like?

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